Desconfianzas Supinas

Hoy un par de anécdotas aleatorias: Salimos a dar un paseo con Marcela y decidimos comer en un local cercano. Dada la hora, el lugar tiene poca afluencia de gente y como se estila en estos particulares tiempos, conservamos la distancia dejando mesas entre los comensales y demás. Justo cuando llega nuestra orden, vemos que se sientan en una mesa aledaña un trio de personas mayores que conversan animadamente entre ellos.

Marcela tose y estornuda, y yo añado la siguiente frase en voz alta: “Este tema nada que se quita, pero bueno… la vida sigue…”. Unos segundos después, los 3 ancianos cambian precipitadamente de mesa y se ubican a una distancia “prudente”, con las consiguientes miradas reprobatorias hacia aquellos desconsiderados que osaron salir a la calle sin medir las consecuencias de sus actos para el resto de la sociedad… Sobra decir tuvimos serias dificultades para seguir degustando nuestro desayuno, porque la risa no nos dejaba…

El otro día  mientras haciamos el pago de las compras en un supermercado cercano, Marcela me dice: “Apurémonos y vamos a su casa, hay que aprovechar que no está su esposa…”. Yo le devuelvo una mirada cómplice y miro a la cajera que no sabe, literalmente, donde meterse. Trata apresuradamente de terminar la transacción después de cometer varios errores en la misma y desvía en todo momento la mirada hacia el suelo hasta que por fin, para su tranquilidad, nos vamos del lugar conteniendo a duras penas unas sonoras carcajadas…

No hay conclusiónes ni enseñanzas de ninguna clase. Simplemente fueron un par de comprobaciones improvisadas y muy divertidas de los juicios que emite la gente sin pensar ni cuestionar absolutamente nada. Para gustos, los colores…

 

 

 

No puedes tenerlo todo

Emily Levine – Maria Popova – BrainPickings

Un poema de Emily Levine, poetisa, comediante y filósofa recientemente fallecida, sobre la riqueza de la vida, aún con las limitaciones que en ocasiones (sin razón) nos sacan de quicio. Disfruten por favor:

YOU CAN’T HAVE IT ALL

But you can have the fig tree and its fat leaves like clown hands
gloved with green. You can have the touch of a single eleven-year-old finger
on your cheek, waking you at one a.m. to say the hamster is back.

You can have the purr of the cat and the soulful look
of the black dog, the look that says, If I could I would bite
every sorrow until it fled, and when it is August,
you can have it August and abundantly so.

You can have love, though often it will be mysterious, like the white foam
that bubbles up at the top of the bean pot over the red kidneys
until you realize foam’s twin is blood.

You can have the skin at the center between a man’s legs,
so solid, so doll-like. You can have the life of the mind,
glowing occasionally in priestly vestments, never admitting pettiness,
never stooping to bribe the sullen guard who’ll tell you
all roads narrow at the border

You can speak a foreign language, sometimes,
and it can mean something. You can visit the marker on the grave
where your father wept openly. You can’t bring back the dead,
but you can have the words forgive and forget hold hands
as if they meant to spend a lifetime together.

And you can be grateful for makeup, the way it kisses your face, half spice, half amnesia, grateful for Mozart, his many notes racing one another towards joy, for towels sucking up the drops on your clean skin, and for deeper thirsts, for passion fruit, for saliva. You can have the dream, the dream of Egypt, the horses of Egypt and you riding in the hot sand

You can have your grandfather sitting on the side of your bed,
at least for a while, you can have clouds and letters, the leaping
of distances, and Indian food with yellow sauce like sunrise

You can’t count on grace to pick you out of a crowd
but here is your friend to teach you how to high jump,
how to throw yourself over the bar, backwards,
until you learn about love, about sweet surrender,
and here are periwinkles, buses that kneel, farms in the mind
as real as Africa.

And when adulthood fails you, you can still summon the memory of the black swan on the pond of your childhood, the rye bread with peanut butter and bananas your grandmother gave you while the rest of the family slept

There is the voice you can still summon at will, like your mother’s,
it will always whisper, you can’t have it all,
but there is this.

Una pequeña oda a la quietud

Me encontré con este poema por accidente en Reddit y creo que vale la pena compartirlo, especialmente en estos tiempos de búsqueda frenética de ocupaciones y oficios sin fin, siguiendo un poco la estela de Byung-Chul Han, que explica en su maravilloso libro “La Sociedad del Cansancio”, que el disponer de todas las opciones disponibles no siempre es positivo, sino que puede causar un desasosiego e intranquilidad permanentes. Juzguen ustedes:

‘Perhaps I could listen to podcasts,’ he spoke –
‘Or go to the gym with the fittest of folk.
Perhaps I could run, or perhaps I could hike –
Perhaps I could ride on a second-hand bike.

‘Perhaps I could wander and gaze at the stars –
In search of the Moon or for Saturn and Mars.
Perhaps I could pick up my pencil and write –
Or practice my singing,’ he sang with delight.

‘Perhaps I could stumble on something to do –
Adopting a whimsical hobby or two –
A striking distraction to fill up my head!
It’s just…

well it’s just…

… I don’t want to,’ he said.